We Choose The Bear
    We Choose The Bear
    The Full Club Calendar

    Events Calendar

    Every meeting, every workshop, every book, every pop-up — all year long. The calendar feels alive all month and members always have a "this week" reason to show up.

    Girl Dinner
    CALM™ Workshop
    Book Club
    Pop-Up Event
    GSD Hour
    Launch Event
    Onboarding Call
    1st Thursday
    Girl Dinner
    8PM ET · Guest Speaker
    2nd Wednesday
    Pop-Up Event
    8PM ET · Surprise Drop
    3rd Sunday
    Book Club
    8PM ET · Monthly Discussion
    4th Tuesday
    Coaching Circle
    8PM ET · CALM™ Workshop
    1

    October 2026

    Onboarding Call

    New Member Onboarding Call

    First Thursday at 7 PM ET — a group call just for new members to get settled, answer questions, and show you around the club. Right before Girl Dinner at 8 PM.

    Thursday, October 1, 2026
    7:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Launch Event

    Launch Night: Welcome to The Bear (October Girl Dinner)

    Special

    Our inaugural meeting — meet the club, meet each other, and kick off the year. This is also our first Thursday Girl Dinner with a featured guest speaker. All members welcome.

    Thursday, October 1, 2026
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom (Member Hub)
    All Members
    Pop-Up Event

    Pop-Up Event (Surprise Drop)

    Second Wednesday pop-up — a surprise you won't find on the regular calendar. Announced to members first.

    Wednesday, October 14, 2026
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration+ Free · Den/Cub $25
    Book Club

    Book Club: Be Your Own Bestie

    🚀 THE KICKOFF — We open the year by becoming our own best friend. Where else would we start?

    Sunday, October 18, 2026
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom (Member Hub)
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    CALM™ Workshop

    CALM™ Workshop #1: You Know What to Do. So Why Do You Keep Abandoning Yourself?

    Fourth Wednesday — Clarity Month 1. What self-abandonment actually looks like in everyday life, and why intelligent women can understand a pattern and still repeat it.

    Wednesday, October 28, 2026
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    2

    November 2026

    Onboarding Call

    New Member Onboarding Call

    First Thursday at 7 PM ET — a group call just for new members. Right before Girl Dinner at 8 PM.

    Thursday, November 5, 2026
    7:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Girl Dinner

    Girl Dinner with Guest Speaker

    First Thursday — our signature monthly Girl Dinner with a featured guest speaker. Topic TBA.

    Thursday, November 5, 2026
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Pop-Up Event

    Pop-Up Event (Surprise Drop)

    Second Wednesday pop-up — a surprise drop. Announced to members first.

    Wednesday, November 11, 2026
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration+ Free · Den/Cub $25
    Book Club

    Book Club: Braving the Wilderness

    🦃 BELONGING — True belonging, including at complicated holiday tables. By Brené Brown.

    Sunday, November 15, 2026
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom (Member Hub)
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    CALM™ Workshop

    CALM™ Workshop #2: How Much of This Is Actually Yours to Carry?

    Fourth Wednesday — Clarity Month 2. Caring about someone is different from carrying responsibility for them. The difference between support and rescue.

    Wednesday, November 25, 2026
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    3

    December 2026

    Onboarding Call

    New Member Onboarding Call

    First Thursday at 7 PM ET — a group call just for new members. Right before Girl Dinner at 8 PM.

    Thursday, December 3, 2026
    7:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Girl Dinner

    Girl Dinner with Guest Speaker

    First Thursday — monthly Girl Dinner with a featured guest speaker. Holiday edition!

    Thursday, December 3, 2026
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Pop-Up Event

    Pop-Up Event: Craft Night 🎄

    Second Wednesday pop-up — seasonal crafting that's less Pinterest-perfect, more laugh-until-you-cry. Make an ornament, paint a pumpkin, build a wreath.

    Wednesday, December 9, 2026
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration+ Free · Den/Cub $25
    Book Club

    Book Club: Heartburn

    🎄 THE FUNNY ONE — Betrayal as comedy, with recipes. By Nora Ephron. Cookie-swap Girl Dinner encouraged.

    Sunday, December 20, 2026
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom (Member Hub)
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    CALM™ Workshop

    CALM™ Workshop #3: You're Not Indecisive. You're Afraid of What the Decision Might Cost

    Fourth Wednesday — Clarity Month 3. Many women are not struggling to identify the answer. They are struggling with the emotional consequence attached to honoring it.

    Wednesday, December 23, 2026
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration & Matriarchy
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    January 2027

    Onboarding Call

    New Member Onboarding Call

    First Thursday at 7 PM ET — a group call just for new members. Right before Girl Dinner at 8 PM.

    Thursday, January 7, 2027
    7:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Girl Dinner

    Girl Dinner with Guest Speaker

    First Thursday — monthly Girl Dinner with a featured guest speaker. New year, new conversations.

    Thursday, January 7, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Pop-Up Event

    Pop-Up Event (Surprise Drop)

    Second Wednesday pop-up — a surprise to start the year. Announced to members first.

    Wednesday, January 13, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration+ Free · Den/Cub $25
    Book Club

    Book Club: The Let Them Theory

    ✨ THE RESET — Release what you can't control. Very applicable to exes. By Mel Robbins.

    Sunday, January 17, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom (Member Hub)
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    CALM™ Workshop

    CALM™ Workshop #4: You Don't Need More Confidence. You Need Self-Trust

    Fourth Wednesday — Alignment Month 4. A woman can be extraordinarily confident and still distrust herself. How self-trust is rebuilt through small kept promises.

    Wednesday, January 27, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    5

    February 2027

    Onboarding Call

    New Member Onboarding Call

    First Thursday at 7 PM ET — a group call just for new members. Right before Girl Dinner at 8 PM.

    Thursday, February 4, 2027
    7:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Girl Dinner

    Girl Dinner with Guest Speaker

    First Thursday — monthly Girl Dinner with a featured guest speaker.

    Thursday, February 4, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Pop-Up Event

    Pop-Up Event: Wine Tasting 🍷

    Second Wednesday pop-up — a sommelier walks us through pairings. No snobbery, just good wine and better company.

    Wednesday, February 10, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration+ Free · Den/Cub $25
    Book Club

    Book Club: A Single Revolution

    💝 THE ANTHEM — Valentine's counterprogramming. Don't look for a match — light one. By Shani Silver.

    Sunday, February 21, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom (Member Hub)
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    CALM™ Workshop

    CALM™ Workshop #5: You Don't Have a Boundary Problem. You Have a Guilt Problem

    Fourth Wednesday — Alignment Month 5. Most women know the boundary. The difficulty is tolerating someone else's reaction to it.

    Wednesday, February 24, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    6

    March 2027

    Onboarding Call

    New Member Onboarding Call

    First Thursday at 7 PM ET — a group call just for new members. Right before Girl Dinner at 8 PM.

    Thursday, March 4, 2027
    7:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Girl Dinner

    Girl Dinner with Guest Speaker

    First Thursday — monthly Girl Dinner with a featured guest speaker.

    Thursday, March 4, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Pop-Up Event

    Pop-Up Event: Charcuterie Board Making 🧀

    Second Wednesday pop-up — build a gorgeous grazing board with us. Learn the art of the perfect cheese spread — and then eat our creations together.

    Wednesday, March 10, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration+ Free · Den/Cub $25
    Book Club

    Book Club: Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life

    🌸 SPRING CLEANING — Sharp, funny, zero pity. Spring-clean the ex. By Tracy Schorn.

    Sunday, March 21, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom (Member Hub)
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    CALM™ Workshop

    CALM™ Workshop #6: Are You Making This Decision From Alignment — or From Fear?

    Fourth Wednesday — Alignment Month 6. Learn to recognize decisions driven by fear versus decisions driven by values.

    Wednesday, March 24, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    7

    April 2027

    Onboarding Call

    New Member Onboarding Call

    First Thursday at 7 PM ET — a group call just for new members. Right before Girl Dinner at 8 PM.

    Thursday, April 1, 2027
    7:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Girl Dinner

    Girl Dinner with Guest Speaker

    First Thursday — monthly Girl Dinner with a featured guest speaker.

    Thursday, April 1, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Pop-Up Event

    Pop-Up Event: Calligraphy Class ✒️

    Second Wednesday pop-up — learn beautiful hand-lettering from a pro. Perfect for cards, journaling, or just impressing yourself.

    Wednesday, April 8, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration+ Free · Den/Cub $25
    Book Club

    Book Club: Wild (Book + Movie Night)

    Special

    🎬 BOOK + MOVIE NIGHT — Read the book, watch the movie on your own time, then come talk about both. By Cheryl Strayed.

    Sunday, April 19, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom (Member Hub)
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    CALM™ Workshop

    CALM™ Workshop #7: Let Them Be Disappointed

    Fourth Wednesday — Liberation Month 7. Someone else's disappointment is not an emergency. You can love someone and still let them be disappointed in your decision.

    Wednesday, April 22, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    8

    May 2027

    Onboarding Call

    New Member Onboarding Call

    First Thursday at 7 PM ET — a group call just for new members. Right before Girl Dinner at 8 PM.

    Thursday, May 6, 2027
    7:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Girl Dinner

    Girl Dinner with Guest Speaker

    First Thursday — monthly Girl Dinner with a featured guest speaker.

    Thursday, May 6, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Pop-Up Event

    Pop-Up Event (Surprise Drop)

    Second Wednesday pop-up — a surprise drop. Announced to members first.

    Wednesday, May 12, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration+ Free · Den/Cub $25
    Book Club

    Book Club: Grown Woman Talk

    💊 GROWN WOMAN HEALTH — Women's Health Month, handled by the doctor who tells it straight. By Dr. Sharon Malone.

    Sunday, May 16, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom (Member Hub)
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    CALM™ Workshop

    CALM™ Workshop #8: Familiar Doesn't Mean Healthy

    Fourth Wednesday — Liberation Month 8. We can repeatedly choose relationships, roles, and dynamics that feel familiar — even when we consciously want something different.

    Wednesday, May 26, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    9

    June 2027

    Onboarding Call

    New Member Onboarding Call

    First Thursday at 7 PM ET — a group call just for new members. Right before Girl Dinner at 8 PM.

    Thursday, June 3, 2027
    7:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Girl Dinner

    Girl Dinner with Guest Speaker

    First Thursday — monthly Girl Dinner with a featured guest speaker.

    Thursday, June 3, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Pop-Up Event

    Pop-Up Event (Surprise Drop)

    Second Wednesday pop-up — a surprise drop. Announced to members first.

    Wednesday, June 9, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration+ Free · Den/Cub $25
    Book Club

    Book Club: Untamed

    ☀️ SELF-LOVE SUMMER — The summer of becoming exactly yourself. Stop abandoning her. By Glennon Doyle.

    Sunday, June 20, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom (Member Hub)
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    CALM™ Workshop

    CALM™ Workshop #9: Stop Trying to Earn What Healthy Love Gives Freely

    Fourth Wednesday — Liberation Month 9. Over-functioning in relationships keeps you chasing what healthy love offers by default.

    Wednesday, June 23, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    10

    July 2027

    Onboarding Call

    New Member Onboarding Call

    First Thursday at 7 PM ET — a group call just for new members. Right before Girl Dinner at 8 PM.

    Thursday, July 1, 2027
    7:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Girl Dinner

    Girl Dinner with Guest Speaker

    First Thursday — monthly Girl Dinner with a featured guest speaker.

    Thursday, July 1, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Pop-Up Event

    Pop-Up Event (Surprise Drop)

    Second Wednesday pop-up — a surprise drop. Announced to members first.

    Wednesday, July 14, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration+ Free · Den/Cub $25
    Book Club

    Book Club: Lessons in Chemistry

    🏖️ THE BEACH READ — She refuses to shrink for anyone. Funny, furious, triumphant. By Bonnie Garmus.

    Sunday, July 18, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom (Member Hub)
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    CALM™ Workshop

    CALM™ Workshop #10: When Did You Stop Asking What You Want?

    Fourth Wednesday — Mastery Month 10. Women can spend decades answering what everybody else needs while losing access to their own preferences and desires.

    Wednesday, July 28, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    11

    August 2027

    Onboarding Call

    New Member Onboarding Call

    First Thursday at 7 PM ET — a group call just for new members. Right before Girl Dinner at 8 PM.

    Thursday, August 5, 2027
    7:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Girl Dinner

    Girl Dinner with Guest Speaker

    First Thursday — monthly Girl Dinner with a featured guest speaker.

    Thursday, August 5, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Pop-Up Event

    Pop-Up Event (Surprise Drop)

    Second Wednesday pop-up — a surprise drop. Announced to members first.

    Wednesday, August 11, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration+ Free · Den/Cub $25
    Book Club

    Book Club: Women Rowing North

    🔭 LOOKING FORWARD — Why the decades ahead are often women's happiest. By Mary Pipher.

    Sunday, August 15, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom (Member Hub)
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    CALM™ Workshop

    CALM™ Workshop #11: Who Are You When You're No Longer the Strong One?

    Fourth Wednesday — Mastery Month 11. Strength can become an identity women are afraid to release. Real strength includes the ability to receive.

    Wednesday, August 25, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    12

    September 2027

    Onboarding Call

    New Member Onboarding Call

    First Thursday at 7 PM ET — a group call just for new members. Right before Girl Dinner at 8 PM.

    Thursday, September 2, 2027
    7:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Girl Dinner

    Girl Dinner with Guest Speaker

    First Thursday — monthly Girl Dinner with a featured guest speaker.

    Thursday, September 2, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    All Members
    Pop-Up Event

    Pop-Up Event: Year One Finale Celebration 🎉

    Special

    Second Wednesday pop-up — a special finale to celebrate the end of Year One. Year Two announced this night!

    Wednesday, September 8, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration+ Free · Den/Cub $25
    Book Club

    Book Club: Killers of a Certain Age

    Special

    🏆 THE FINALE — Finish year one feeling dangerous. Year Two announced this night. By Deanna Raybourn.

    Sunday, September 19, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom (Member Hub)
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    CALM™ Workshop

    CALM™ Workshop #12: Become the Woman Who Trusts Herself

    Fourth Wednesday — Mastery Month 12. Self-trust isn't a personality trait. It's a relationship you build with yourself. The culmination of the CALM™ Series.

    Wednesday, September 22, 2027
    8:00 PM ET
    Zoom
    Celebration & Matriarchy
    Daily · 7 Days a Week · Even Holidays

    Get Sh*t Done (GSD Hour)

    Every day at 1PM Eastern on Zoom — including weekends and every holiday. Bring your ONE thing — work, your workout, laundry, that phone call.

    But here's the real reason we show up: it's not just about getting sh*t done. It's about not being alone while you do it. Holidays can be the loneliest days of the year — so we keep the room open. Feeling lonely? Just check in. You don't have to be productive to belong here.

    We check in, mute, and crush it together for 50 minutes, then brag at the end. Come for the focus, stay for the company. Included with all paid memberships.

    Every day · 1:00 PM ET · Zoom · Open on holidays

    The calendar is always full.

    Girl Dinners, coaching circles, book club, pop-ups, and daily GSD hours. There's always a reason to show up — and always a room full of women waiting.