Everything they never
taught us about a life of our own.
Money, health, pleasure, and living gloriously well — written for women
who chose the bear.
F*ck That Guy: A Field Guide to Resilience
Every woman in this club has a That Guy. This article is about the science of what happens next — because "f*ck that guy" isn't just a toast. It's a recovery protocol.
Decorating a Home That's Just for You
There's a moment every solo woman hits: you realize every object was a negotiation. Now the other negotiator is gone. It's time to design for you.
The solo traveler starter kit
Everything you need to know before you pack your bags for your first solo adventure. From safety tips to making friends on the road.
Living Single in a Couples Culture
Navigating weddings, holidays, and dinner parties when the world expects a plus one. How to show up fully as yourself — unapologetically solo.
Who's Your Emergency Contact?
It's the question that stops a solo woman's pen in mid-air. But an emergency contact isn't a husband-shaped hole—it's a community-shaped web.
The best cities for single women
Where to build a big single life, according to the data. Three studies, three different questions — and the answer depends on which single life you're building.
When No Becomes a Negotiation
You said no, and somehow the conversation didn't end. The difference between attraction and coercion, and why "no" is a complete sentence.
Boysober: The Best Thing You'll Quit This Year
The apps turned romance into an unpaid second career. Boysober is handing in your resignation — and the benefits package is unreal.
Why We Choose the Bear
Peace stopped feeling like a luxury and started feeling like a safety plan. Here's why we made the choice — and why we're not going back.
In Sickness and in Health (Terms May Vary)
It's not a joke, a grudge, or a TikTok trend. It's data — and the receipts are from oncology journals.
Choosing a Healthcare Proxy When You're Solo
The fix for the scenario nobody wants to picture takes one form and one honest conversation.
Libido, No Partner Required
Your sexuality is yours. It was never on loan from anyone. Here's what's actually happening in your body — and how to reclaim it on your own terms.
How Much Do I Actually Need to Retire Alone?
Retiring alone costs more per person than retiring as a couple, but it's absolutely doable. Here's the math that actually matters for solo women.
How to Book Your First Solo International Trip, Step by Step
Waiting for company was the only hard part. The booking takes an afternoon. Here's the six-step plan every solo first-timer needs.
The financial freedom of 'just me'
Why managing your own money is the ultimate form of self-care, and how to build wealth without a dual income.
Finding your people after 40
How to build deep, meaningful friendships in a new chapter of life when everyone else seems 'settled'.