We Choose The Bear Club.
An online social club for women who chose independence — and are building something beautiful with it. Living single, out loud.
At a Glance
Who We Are
Women living solo, out loud
What We Do
Monthly Girl Dinners & more
Our Vibe
Come as you are 🐻
Our Promise
No fixing. No judgment.
"When asked whether a woman would rather come upon a man or a bear in the woods, women overwhelmingly chose the bear. Not as a joke but as a gut-wrenching truth about our safety, and trust. We choose the bear..."
— The question that started it all
Who We Are
We Choose The Bear Club is a membership community for women of a certain age who are stepping into a chapter of chosen independence — whether through divorce, separation, or the quiet, confident decision to simply live solo. We're not a man-bashing club. We're a celebration.
Why We Exist
She has raised children, built careers, survived marriages, buried parents, and outlasted relationships that asked too much and gave too little back. She has done the hard work of becoming — and now, for the first time in a long time, her life belongs entirely to her.
We looked for a community — a real one — where women like us could connect without it being about dating, or "fixing" ourselves, or pretending everything was fine when it wasn't. A place to learn the things no one teaches us: how to make friends as an adult, how to manage finances solo, how to navigate a world built for couples, who is my emergency contact, how do I start over?
We couldn't find that place. So we created it.
What We Believe
- "No" is a complete sentence — and you don't owe anyone an apology.
- Girl Dinner is the best dinner. A bag of popcorn counts as a meal.
- Women help women rise. Period.
- Single isn't waiting. It's choosing.
- Your life belongs entirely to you now. That's not scary — that's freedom.
What Members Get
Monthly Girl Dinners
Come in your jammies. In bed. Just in from the gym. No judgment, ever.
Book Club & Coaching Circles
A new book every month plus coach-led circles about living your best life after divorce.
Real Community
Breakout sessions, a private Facebook group, and friendships that last a lifetime.
Resources & Support
Expert guidance on finances, health, travel, boundaries, and starting over.
Want to join our table?
There's always room for one more at Girl Dinner.
Let's Connect
Have questions? Want to collaborate? Just want to say hi? We read every message. Really.